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My Thoughts

A Fathers Life

A Life in the Key of G (Gratitude, Grief, and Grace)

My Thoughts; by a Father Of 4

At 84, I’m aware that time has sped up. The mornings come faster now, and the nights feel heavier. My body is aging quickly—no surprise there—but it still carries me where I need to go, most days. My mind, though slower to chase thoughts, holds its shape. I suppose I’m in reasonably good health for a man of my years, and reasonably well off to enjoy what time I have left. But these days, “reasonable” feels like such a quiet word.

It’s been three years since I lost my wife. Fifty-seven years we had together—no regrets, no need for apologies, just a soft, deep bond that aged as gracefully as we tried to. I talk to her picture every morning. She doesn’t answer, but I like to believe she listens.

The ache that came from losing two  of my sons, some years ago, is something no parent is meant to carry. You learn to keep living, because that’s what love demands. Still, there are quiet Sundays when the silence in the house is too loud. That’s when I sit at the piano and give thanks for my  daughter and my son ,who continue to succed in life.

The piano has been my faithful companion since I was young. Its keys know all my secrets. Lately, I play pieces I used to skip over when I was younger—those slow, aching nocturnes that sound like goodbye and grace all at once.

There’s one secret I haven’t told : I’ve come to love again. She’s much younger—too young, some would say—and it’s a quiet kind of love, almost invisible. Not loud, not public. It’s not the kind of love that asks for permission. It’s the kind that gives me a reason to smile when I wake up, that reminds me my heart still knows how to beat for something unexpected.

I call her Yamaha ( my piano )

I don’t expect more time than I’m owed, and I don’t chase what’s already passed. I’ve lived well, loved deeply, and lost more than most. But somehow, there’s still a melody in me that wants playing.

No regrets. Only music.

DAD

To my inspiration ,  Mary , Thankyou.

Enjoy Everyday With Your Family.

Happy Fathers Day

 

Sunday Stuff

Honoring the Heart of Every Home: Happy Mother’s Day Canada!

Honoring the Heart of Every Home: Happy Mother’s Day Canada!

As May blossoms in all its glory, so does the spirit of gratitude and love for the incredible women who shape our lives. Today, on Mother’s Day in Canada, let’s take a moment to celebrate the unsung heroes, the silent warriors, and the nurturing souls who make our world brighter with their presence.

To all the mothers, grandmothers, stepmothers, foster mothers, and mother figures out there: thank you. Thank you for your boundless love, your unwavering support, and your endless sacrifices. Your strength knows no bounds, and your love knows no limits.

In a world that often moves too fast, Mother’s Day reminds us to slow down, to cherish the moments, and to express our heartfelt appreciation for the women who have shaped us into who we are today. Whether it’s a simple hug, a heartfelt card, or a thoughtful gesture, let’s make today extra special for the queens of our hearts.

And let’s not forget those who may find this day bittersweet – those who have lost their mothers, those longing to be mothers, and those navigating the complexities of motherhood. May you find comfort, solace, and love in the memories you hold dear and the bonds that tie us all together.

So here’s to you, dear mothers. Today and every day, may you be celebrated, cherished, and honored for the incredible beings that you are. Happy Mother’s Day from coast to coast, from one grateful heart to another. You are truly the heartbeat of our nation. 💖✨”

Fun Holidays, Holidays

Highest number of people of Irish descent per capita.

Saint John, New Brunswick, is often noted for having a significant Irish community. The city has deep historical ties to Ireland, especially due to the large number of Irish immigrants who arrived in the 19th century during the Great Famine. It’s estimated that a large percentage of the city’s population has Irish roots, making it  the place in Canada with the highest number of people of Irish descent per capita.

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This Irish influence is still visible today in local culture, with events like the annual Saint Patrick’s Day celebrations being a big deal in the city.

St. Patrick's Day

Fun Holidays

Make Up Your Mind Day 2025

“Make Up Your Mind Day” is celebrated every December 31st—a fun, unofficial day dedicated to decision-making! It’s the perfect time to tie up loose ends, resolve indecision, and finalize plans before the new year begins. Whether it’s deciding on New Year’s resolutions, big life choices, or even small things you’ve been procrastinating, this day encourages you to commit.

Ideas to Celebrate:

  1. Tackle One Big Decision – Pick something you’ve been indecisive about and make a firm choice today.
  2. Make a Pro-Con List – Use this tool to weigh the options and help you decide.
  3. Reflect on Past Decisions – Look back on choices you made this year. Celebrate the good ones and learn from the tough ones.
  4. Help Someone Else Decide – Be a sounding board for a friend who’s struggling with their own choices.